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虚伪又假惺惺的人，是我最厌恶的。

然而，这类category的人不乏出现在现实生活中。
他们活跃于大公司，大家庭。

数年前，我曾向SL吐露对此的不削。但她提醒我，不懂得虚伪/奉承会吃亏的！哈，我好想大笑！
的确！对她的“忠言“，我认同。但，我不会出卖自己而效法！所以，在一些圈子里，我不及他们来的会讨人欢心！无论如何，那又怎样？硬要我把黑的说成白的，我办不到！你们那么喜欢用奉承来换取利益，就好比，小狗摇摇尾巴讨骨头吃！啃完了骨头，饱了肚子，连声BYEBYE都忘了。讨得某人心，却也招人白眼。

真心的赞美，是悦耳的！
虚伪的奉承，是杂音！
眼不见为净，耳不听而静！

齐庆开斋

今年的开斋节，我们与马来民族同庆.

农历八月初一，巫族开斋节前夕，阳历190909，拿车；特假一天。
又加上开斋节两天的公共假期，长达三天的周末。

亲朋戚友陆续回来，共聚。
开着7-seater的新车到处拜访，到处逛；极有过年的感觉。

坐新车，小孩不枉是最开心的。
而我两也暂时忘了这一切是要付出代价的。
大家沉浸在欢愉中。
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如今假期已过，又开始要为生活成为金钱的奴隶！

孩子、房子、店屋、家佣、教育、车子、保险；
哇！不列出来还不晓得担子的重量！

任谁都希望享受美好的人生，活在当下。
住洋房、驾大车、环游世界，留下美丽的足迹，不枉此生！

我希望明年，能达成另一个梦。。。

Vampires: I NeeD BlOoD!

We sponsored a banner for St John Blood Donation Campaign last Sunday. We were there to collect the Certs of Appreciation issued by them. At the same time, we did the Body Mass Index (BMI), Blood Pressure, Blood Sugar and Cholesterol Test.

As usual, i am under-weight. But, my Cholesterol has decreased to ideal, to my surprise. I think it must be the contribution of Quaker 's Oat every morning :D

Unfortunately, I was dignosed with Low Blood Pressure, and it's really low, Opps!

Nowonder, i always feel dizziness and few mins of "black-out" after squating or some Yoga posture. Furthermore, i also experience breathlessness sometimes. It is most obvious after drinking coffee.

I always thought that only people who suffer from High Blood Pressure are at risk; i never realise that those who are categorised as Low Blood Pressure also bad for health.

To find out more about Blood Pressure, please link yourself to :

http://www.medicinenet.com/low_blood_pressure/

缺了的一角

读后感。。。促动了感性的神经线。

每个人生的拼图，不论多么完整，终会有个缺角。

朋友，是我生辰八字里欠缺的一部分。

友谊，是我渴望拥有的一段情。

唉，命里有时终须有；命里无时莫强求！

仿佛每段即将燃起的友情，多不得而终。。。。

有些事是羡慕不来的。。。。

我承认自己不适合群体生活。

孤立，冰冷，有时静的怕人。

先入为主的印象，已让人敬而远之。

被动，是结交的另一障碍。

我的拼图缺了一片。。。

3 PreCious Gifts

翻了翻孩子们的旧照片，从出生、满月、对岁、上幼儿园。。。等等等。。。
陶醉在满满的回忆中。。。

有回忆总是美丽的。
错过了，时光不会倒流。
之所以拍照，原因如此简单。

三个宝贝，是无价的。
纵使你们爱玩爱闹爱争吵，我和你们的爸难得偷得一丝宁静；你们终究是天真无邪般可爱！

妈妈知道，我偶尔偏心、大小眼。 但，手心是肉，手背当然也是肉。
超怕吵闹的妈咪，真的要面对极大的耐心考验来应付你们的“非一般”的童年岁月。

希望你们快些长大的同时，又矛盾的时而享受你们童真的爆笑！哈哈。。。。。

09.09.99~09.09.09

I never noticed that we were met on such a nice date 10years back, until he told me recently......

We got to know each other in a friend's wedding in year 1999. He just dragged a chair and sat beside me at the same table. He took the first step for our conversation, and gave me his hp number. Well, if he never asked for my contact number later on, i think i might not give him a call, and that's the end of the story.

He took the effort to call me 2 weeks later..... but,why so long?
We were at two different countries at that time. I was working in S'pore, and he was in Kluang. I told him that i would only be back in another 2 weeks time. He really bear in mind and gave me a call then and it did surprise me! Later on, we got to know our date-of-birth are "coincidence closed", his is 7th of Oct, and mine is 8th of Oct..... different by 4 years and 1 day!

Today.....9th of Sept, 2009. We had met for exactly 10years. I cherish the life to be with you. And i am looking forwards for another 10 years, and so on.....

Dear, you promise me to take another wedding shots in our 10th wedding anniversary in year 2011. I am eagerly looking forwards for the day to come.

As i always say, i believe in fate just because i have u by my side. I believe that we are meant to be together as we were met on a good date 久久久久, which means long and lasting happiness.....

I CHERISH WHAT I HAVE!!.....

10年

整整10年了！

他1999 年底买的Proton Wira 至今2000年底，10年了。

他与她的相识1999年9月9日，也快10年庆了。

他/她们拍拖时期的第三者， 是国产JFN1371。

她为了载送孩子，被迫真正驾驶的第一辆代步工具， 也是国产JFN1371。

车，随着年龄的折旧而贬值；

人，随着感情的累积而增值。

回想起10年前的那对少男少女；如今已为人父母。。。

回首10年。。。

双眼线的故事

宝贝儿子，

我特意拍下你迷人的双眼！

尽管它如此炯炯有神，妈妈宁愿你保持平日憨厚的单眼皮。

一切只因为，你凹陷的双眼皮只出现在病魔侵入你身体的时侯。那段日子我必须给你喂药，日夜担心你的病情，期望你早日康复。

我们都对你这“独一无二”的特别现象而感惊奇。

尽管如此美丽，我只想欣赏照片。。。。不求你真人示范！

宝贝，我爱你！*Muak*