你的生日，我的受难日。

昨天是我家大女，彤的八岁生日。

晚上在KFC饱餐一顿后，买了个1/2kg的chocolate hazelnut cake回家。

她的外公送她一个很可爱的Mickey mouse 绒毛小背包。外婆呢，应她所求，买了个不知什么东东的玩具给她。天啊，明年九岁了耶，还玩玩具！

彤在我心中，是个长不大的孩子。我常常说她不像个二年级的学生。太爱玩了！成天与弟妹玩翻天、追电视卡通节目。一追就是对着四四方方的电视机几个钟头；完全没有把心思放在学业功课上。

在三个孩子当中，我好像对她特别严厉，也责备她最多。不知道她的心里会否不满？
因为她是长女，我希望她能为弟妹树立好榜样，做个模范姐姐！
所幸，她是个聪明的孩子，很多事情一点就通。我常常叮咛她，聪明但懒惰的孩子，不这么样；
勤劳却不聪明的孩子，还有的救。你聪明，如果又加上勤劳，肯定天下无敌，哈哈！！
孩子就是需要不断鼓励的。。。。。

昨晚，我心血来潮，向他们三个小瓜讲故事。我把他们带回八年前的今天，述说着我头一遭开刀生产的故事与心情。再翻下我裤子的裤头，让他们见识“你们从哪儿来”的疤痕。老公突然爆出一句：“今天是你的生日，却是妈咪的受难日。” 哇，会说出这话，总算你还有良心！

Happy Birthday, My Girl！！

就是讨厌！！

讨厌一个人是有理由的。有些事，就是过不了心理的那一关。

何谓“理所当然”？

Always take things for granted;
Always take in generously but stingy to give out;
Always think of themselve before considerate for others;
Always see the coins bigger than the tyre;
Never ever remember their chilren's b-day, but insist children to celebrate their b-day;
Never filial to their parents, but insist children to filial them;
Their mouth are always stink and their words are always sting!

天理何在？
You think you are King and Queen ah???!!!!

This is a world of give and take. It's mutual and two-ways. It's respect. One-way ticket will never bring you home to enjoy our warmth.

It's sad to say, "They are my Parents-In-Laws".

天生一对

月夜十时，在彭亨州，法国村钟塔的桥上。他们欣赏着夜景。望了望桥下的天鹅。

“你知道吗？ 天鹅是最专一的。”他对她说。

“( ⊙ o ⊙ ) 啊！是吗？”她不信。

“你看！它们一定有两只。面对面，是LOVE的符号。”他解释道。

“是哦！”她傻傻的回答，心里想起某某某从前也送了她一对玻璃天鹅成heart-shape的音乐盒。

“而且，它们总是不离不弃。如不成双成对在水里、要不齐齐在草地上。它们不会一个东、一个

西。不会有第三者。”他继续。

她怀疑着。。。 看看右边，两只恩爱的白天鹅在草地上歇息；又跑到左边，另两只黑天鹅果然也相伴着在草地上。

“真的耶！”她像发现新大陆般兴奋。

从此，她视天鹅为恩爱的象征，更胜向来爱戴的红玫瑰。。。

再好听的曲子，还是会有曲终的时候。。。

2009年10月13日，下午1时15分。
阿嫲，您安息吧！一路走好。。。

我们会永远怀念您那和蔼又亲切的笑容。您对我们的关怀备至，历历在目。
身为您的长外孙女，我深深的感受到您生前对我的疼爱。在我十八姑娘时，您买了两条金链子准备送给我与同龄的表妹。您拉了我到厨房，轻声让我先选，剩下的那条才给表妹。这件事虽小，我却铭记在心，一辈子都不会忘记您对我的厚爱。

我很庆幸我的另一半是孝顺的。近几年的母亲节，外婆也和我们同桌共庆。让我没有遗憾。

看着今日的星报，外婆的讣告、排列着的名字，一代接一代。我顿时对“传宗接代”，“开枝散叶”有了更深一层的体会。外婆在这世上的八十载，有她伟大的贡献。因此，我们不必感到悲伤。或许，她已得到解脱，不需再承受癌细胞的折磨。

如果有来世，我希望还能再叫您一声，阿嫲！

舍不得，你的容颜。

亲爱的外婆，

一星期不见，您的精神及身体状况明显的衰弱。从六月间至今，您在这五个月里进出医院及疗养院，身体一日不如一日。

您已无能力行走，连半躺半坐都不行。软绵绵的身躯就只能日夜卧床，鼻子插着氧气管。我注意到您的手脚有肿胀的迹象。您已不能说话，口语却没有声音。疗养院里的KAKAK 侍候着您的衣食住行。我从您的眼里，看出你对她这唯一的依靠，那份感激。您的手，握握又拍拍她的手肘。我心酸，那没有血缘关系的KAKAK竟然是陪您终老的唯一。我轻拭去眼角的泪水，怕被您看见。

您一直手指胸口，用发不出声音的嘴告诉我“痛”！
您问起我的三个宝贝，又问起在英国的弟弟！
您对我弯了弯食指，又再用嘴型告诉我“死”！

我好怕，我好怕我的预感！眼泪也陪我。。。。

您最疼爱的长外孙女
11.10.09

Happy Double Birthday *>

I'm already in a High Spirit Mood today!
Today 7th of Oct, is my dear husband's 36th birthday.
Tomorrow 8th of Oct, will be my 32th birthday.
3 more weeks later, it will be my eldest daughter's turn, her 8th birthday.

I love October. It's the month for celebrations!!!

October'2009 is memorable. It's the 10th birthdays that we spend with each other! .... A time to remember...

Every year in this time, we are sharing double happiness! Yes, we are celebrating for continuously two days... Yeah!!

He will always request me to cook a bowl of vermicelli soup with two boiled egg for his breakfast on his day! As for me, i must have a cake at night on my day!（ 一中一西）

We are at 1 goal. Let's make a wish together... ...

舞，或不舞？

Should i accept the offer?

MM is offering me a part-time post in her dancing studio, to teach little children dancing for stage performance. I appreciate very much for her offering, to allow me a chance to "step" into my interest again, which i thought i would never had a chance to involve after my marriage.

However, my Saturday Yoga class is crashed. It means i have to sacrifice this exercise. Furthermore, i need to deal with children. They are always mischievous, like to make noise and not giving much attention. There are already 3 "monkeys" at my house. (Excuse me!)To accept this offer, i need to deal with more "monkeys". Can i take it? I doubt of my ability of tolerance!

In the other hand, i am not only continuing my interest, but also cultivate the next generation. It's happy and proud to see them performing up on the stage with applause! .....including my little girl :)
(if i were to accept the offer, i will bring along my little girl to learn)

Should i???